Hehe. Guys and girls, don't expect me to come back with an engrish accent please. The INTO Newcastle is packed with many Hong Kong, China and Taiwanese people! They are a majority here. HAHA. What a joke right? And I'm considered one of them by the British people. Sigh.
Anyway! Me is so sorry for not updating my blog! I've been really busy trying to manage the first few weeks cos I've learnt my mistake in TP. No more slacking. We are learning to reference books and stuff properly here and IT IS SO STRICT!!! (MY GOSH!)
We have an online system that checks your work for plagiarism. The system checks my submission with all the books,journals and assignments other people has done, in the world! Crazy shizz.
I've been studying hard so I am taking a break on my computer, eating my £3 Haagen Dazs. (^.^)v
So now, where do I start?
Hmmmmm.... There has been a lot of things going on. Maybe I should start with friends and the people here.
Well, Daphne has officially left our clique. HAHA. Thank God, as I think its for the better. Its a really long story and I have no idea where to start. I've found her a little weird and a bit full of herself since I met her. Daphne is the girl in the photo on the right. The girl in the centre is Yan, my room mate.
Daphne seems to be a bit clingy to my room mate and she kinda made jokes about how Yan is an awesome room mate and so kind cos she washed the dishes one day. Yan, by the way, is a genius. She's a mathematical genius and a musical genius (going to be but still wayyyyyyy better than anything I am). Hence, for Daphne, ( who needs help in maths cos she's studying pharmaceutical science) Yan, is a genius and the perfect room mate.
Hmm.. Its pretty hard to explain Daphne's character. She kinda has 2 personalities I think? One is the nice girl when she is with her friends or rather, classmates. She controls her temper and smiles. But the other personality is one we have all now seen. Her true colours. She complains about every single thing that goes wrong in her day. She skypes her mum and dad everyday and complains to them. Her poor room mate, Samantha, has to bear all the shouting and screaming that she does to her parents. We were fine with it until one day she wasn't very happy with us.
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| Me and Yan at the Millenium Bridge |
What happened was that it was supposed to be a dinner with just me, yan, samantha, her and yajunn. Turns out 2 of my classmates came along. Andddd just because of that, she wasn't happy. She just couldn't get along with them. \(O.O)/
Whattttttt. She didn't talk to us for a night. I would think that she wouldn't have talked to us the next day but she won a mini competition in her class and her tutor praised her about it. (so she was happy and talking again.) \(o~o)/
Talk about weird, the night where the incident that made her angry took place, she told me and Samantha (her room mate) that before she came to Newcastle, she had a dream that she and her room mate would fight because of something and they wouldn't talk after that. HAH! wow..
SO, this is what happened that caused Daphne to be angry at us for some reason. (I don't think she should even get angry in the first place)
My room mate, Yan, was down with a flu and cough. She doesn't really drink water and she takes her meds with tea or any other drink besides water. She is also a sugar addict and loves to eat sweets and candies. Yan has a whole drawer full of them. (-.-) I have nothing to do with her candies. HAHA. My stash is pretty small and it's been with me for quite some time now. (O~O)
| My secret food stash |
Anyway, back to the story... Daphne and Samantha, after dinner, came over to my room to chit chat and chill. Daphne wanted to make Yan drink some water and find her a proper medicine. (Yan has a medicine stash which she doesn't really use.) Daphne being the to-be "pharmacist" wanted to help and we were all laughing and joking while making Yan drink water. It was all good, until Daphne went to Yan's table and started clearing out food that was on the table. Yan got a little annoyed but didn't really say anything until she went for the drawers. /(*.*)\ Yan kinda had a moody face on by the time and Daphne and Samantha were suddenly in a n awkward situation. (I was in the loo at that time and I came out to a pissed off room mate.) Yan nicely told them to "go back first lah ahh.." and so they went back to their room. I settled things with Yan and told her that people may not realise other people's limits and she understood and let it slip.
The next day, Samantha came and asked me how Yan was and if she was super angry about it. I cleared the air and it was fine between Samantha and Yan. The thing was that Yan was not angry at anyone already and when Yan tried talking to Daphne, Daphne was the one showing attitude towards Yan! *Dafugg* \(O.O)/
She didn't tell us what happened and just stayed silent the whole night. The next day, she still didn't talk to us and we wanted to go to Tynemouth (the seaside). Yan was evil and said we should leave her alone. I told Samantha to just ask but Daphne said briefly to her: "You all go lor." Before we left, Yan went to knock on her door but she didn't reply. (o.0) weirdo.
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| Tynemouth |
We found out later through one of her shouting/skyping sessions with her mum that she was angry at Yan and that we all gave her attitude and that we knocked on her door but she was studying so she didn't reply. *DAFUGG* A bit mad don't yea think?
Yan told us to ignore her and let her learn from her mistakes. Yan felt a little bad at first but now she doesn't really care. She feels that Daphne is being childish and her mum is allowing her to be like that. tsk. Yajunn told us to ignore her as well and that she should learn not to be so petty and self-centred.
I felt bad initially but now, it's becoming a joke everyday.
What made it ultra bad now is that Daphne has moved out of the shared rooms into her own single studio. Well, it's good for Samantha and bad for Daphne. She will totally not mix with anyone and its gonna be quite hard for her to have friends living in a single studio. What's more, she made her own nightmare, a reality. Tsk.
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| Me and Samantha |
I was so kind as to try and find out from her mum what happened. Her mum saw my message on the day I sent it because Daphne was complaining to her mum that night when I sent it. We all wanted to know why and we gave her the benefit of the doubt that she may not find it easy to share her feelings. Well, sad to say, her mum is the reason she became this way. Whatsapp has a few ways of showing you if your message is received right? 2 ticks means that its received and read. Plus they also show you the time and date the user was on their whatsapp.
Her mum took 5 days, the whole weekday to actually reply me. During that 5 days, we didn't talk to her at all and it was slightly awkward for Samantha and I seeing her at the INTO building. She can totally just look right past us and not say hi. Awkward...
Here's what I said:
"Hi Aunty, Noreen here. Me and Daphne's room mate are a bit worried about Daphne. She seems to be angry at us but we are not sure why. We have tried to find her for lunch, she didn't say a word. Did she tell you what happened? Did we do something wrong? She doesn't really tell us if she's angry so we are not sure what happened. We are very worried for her."
After 5 days, here's what her mum said:
"Sorry for the late replies, i think there's nothing wrong now.Daphne has a really genuine personality. She doesn't like anyone to misinderstand her kind intentions and getting suspected. As friends, mutual understanding is required."
1) She isn't answering my question on what happened and what made Daphne angry.
2) No one misunderstood her daughter at all. Yan knew her intentions were good but her daughter should not have touched other people's things. She only knows Yan for 3 weeks please? If I touched her stuff, she would have been angry too.
3) Suspected her of doing what? No one was suspecting her. She didn't even tell us anything!
4) We had a mutual understanding between all of us. It was her daughter that seems to not have an understanding of friendships at all!
5) She was siding with her daughter and she made it seem like we were the bad ones here. WTF. please.
ANYWAY! Enough angst in my post. HERE is OUR NEW CLIQUE.
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| Me,Yan, Samantha, Cherlyn and Sally |
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| OMG!!! ITS SNOWING! |
I can't wait for the snow to come even heavier! We have a really nice slope at the back of our hostel and we are planning to buy sledges to slide on the snow! WOOHOO! Can't wait!
I also can't wait to go back to Singapore! I wanna see my awesome friends and tell them all about the people here. No one can beat them in terms of friendship!They really know how to make me smile! hehe. I still have loads to share but just one person can take up all of my blog post. What about my other class mates I wanna talk about? phew. Tiring. haha. Anyway, Ruben's family has invited me to join them in their Bangkok trip in December too! I can't wait! Mummy has said yes and I'm so bloody excited! MASSAGE, HERE I COME BABEH!
I can't wait for my parcels to arrive too! Woots woots. (^.^)v I LUBBS YOU ALL! <3 <3 <3 Me has some stuff too but I can't send it through post. I'll send out my letter soon though! Haven't finished them yet! Anyway, how have you all been? What's new? Tell me about yours too lehhh! (^.^)
Here's a nice motivation for everyone!
Believe the positive things and it will come true! (^.-)v Learn from Daphne's story! HAHA.
***For Ruben: HI HONEY! I miss you and I love you soooooo much! hehe. Facetime you soon! (^.-)v***
Xoxo,
Noreen <3







